主题：恋爱中如何识别和摆脱loser，男女都适用 -- coo

At the right time you meet the right guy. However, not every girl/boy is that lucky. Most likely, her/his first love might end up with a broken heart/or hearts.

See, it is not a well-defined issue that who is the one that deserves your love. You have no love experience at all before you try it.

Now the strategy becomes how to manage one's life when meeting a wrong guy/gal. At the first place, one should not let love entirely mess up one's life. Being oneself, then he is able to face the life without that wrong guy/gal.

The failed relationship might not be any one's fault at all, neither guy/gal's nor yours. Presumably it is just because two cannot get along, and it is simply a wrong match. So, one needs cool down and makes a right decision.