主题：【原创】情人节，故事之初恋- 一不留神变成了三角(0) -- coo

I agree with you that man needs a big heart and broad-minded if he wants to be addressed as a mature man. It is.

In China, a lot of couples still stay together though they have a lot of issues. Family violence could be the way that keeps the couple inside marriage, which is entirely forbidden in States. According the traditional Chinese views, this cannot be termed as family violence, and it is part of life, because the their parents used to do.

The relationship becomes extremely weak when the couple comes to States, because life is too uncertain to them. One has to worry about keeping a job, or continuing one's studies, and issues alike. One single mistake might ruin his entire life. Therefore the tolerance for any mistakes drops dramatically. Probably a slight family violence can entirely change one's life. I believe this happened many times before, and it would happen again and again...

By the way, the love for oversea guys are not that romantic, neither it is idealistic. Loneness pulls two close.