主题：【原创】一个老实男生的故事 -- 故园湾里
Could be that not taking advantage of others' mistakes... Is that right?讷于言而敏于行 should be those who are extremely smart.
老实人 must do man thick road
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but in this world, they should aslo be wise and executive enough to survive...
“发奋图强了三个月。然后就会说上海话了” is a good example.
（强大啊，不过跟who学滴捏...）
No, 6个月 has been very long, even at that time, 1960s and 1970s. For a man, within six months he can make all the possible mistakes that girls hate. 闪婚 could be within six days, or even shorter. Six weeks are even somewhat not short, within which, Hitler was able to manage to beat France down.
你爹当年还挺顺眼的，不象现在！
幸福吧
另外 处了半年后结婚不算闪婚了，很正常了。好多都是见面一次后定下来，在见面的时候就是婚礼上了，前后不到两个月的，这个速度还差不多叫闪婚。
但写得活灵活现，很温馨啊。。
也还是进展相当迅速的。
当然，当时结婚不需要买房子装修拍婚纱照订酒水而且最可恶的是好日子都要提前一年订！
不那么温馨幸福的事情当然也有，但是记住那些有什么意思呢。
反正我看到信里最后那句话是被我老爹雷得外焦里嫩风中凌乱。
“你老爹当年是个美男子。”这样的话。
经常被我无情否定：“爸爸一点都不帅！”
然后两个人开始旷日持久的争辩&推卸责任。
就是E文中的斯威特啊。。。
工欲善其事，必先利其器！
要泡上海MM，不会上海话怎么行。
当年我那帮小学同学，现在在上海的怕有三分之二。就算不算那些通过自己努力在上海定居的，知青子女或者支内子女大概也有一多半。