主题：【原创】相亲奇遇记(16)我们都不是普通人(上) -- 忘情

This simply serves as a reference for Wangqin.

She used to care you while she didn't trust you. Could we explain this as she doesn't want to bother her mother at this stage? Introducing you to her mom would make her mom worry about the relationship between you guys very much. Her mom's heart is not in good state. She loves her mom very much, in fact.

As long as she stays at home, her mom feels secured and happy. Believe me? She is close to 30, but not so old that she could stay at home to watch TV with mom for the whole night day after day, right? She hasn't been a household woman yet. She needs social activities, because the vigor of youth still jumps inside her body.

The household work makes her mom at ease. A person free of any responsibilities could be a walking-dead-person. The way of her staying at home might be not very positive in your eyes, however it at least cannot be explained as she does not care her mom. If she does not care, she can go somewhere else during the summer vacation.

Wangqin's understanding about 孝顺 is too narrow. I dod understand his concern. However, how she gets along with your parents if you guys come together eventually mainly depends on the relationship between you both. I would say there is no 不孝顺 xifu, while there is only 不孝顺 son.

You need encourage your parents to burn some money. Buy sth for them, and let them enjoy the happiness brought by money. Money does not mean anything if you never use it.

She had feelings with you still. You wish she is very polite to you? Did you ever hold her hands and say " I love you, and I want to spend the rest of life with you" sincerely? if say so please not speak in Nanchangese.