主题：【原创】我是如何提前还房贷的(上) -- 忘情
- 复 微波炉热一下
家园 三明治热热不是也更好吗？ 我喜欢热热的奶酪，融化的黄油。我最爱瑞士奶酪火锅，
，最高记录是我在瑞士一周体重上升3公斤
嗯，好像说得很远了，我的本意是说，就算三明治热了吃也要好些
家园 一周体重上升3公斤 This is not good. However, cheeses and butters are absolutely delicious. I am amazed by his four mantous as lunch for such a long time. The financial situation of my family used to be worse than his. It really does not deserve efforts like this to buy an apartment.
家园 都有难处啊 现在国内想要讨上媳妇，no money and no apartment are ten thousend ten thousend impossible
，这就是目前国内的行情
。忘情父母很希望他早日成家，他是个孝子，希望早日满足父母愿望。房子问题是广大光棍童子们的痛啊- 复 都有难处啊
家园 孝子，希望早日满足父母愿望 Life belongs to oneself. Parents are only those who bring one to this world. This might be simply my opionion about life. However, it is always too heavy to live for other people. I ever told my parent in very early time, that I would leave them and explore my own life. My mom, pretty forward, ever said, she didn't care whether her sons get married or not. Her duty was to raise them up, not bother to worry about grandchildren.
As Wangqin, I feel like he chose wife in a wrong way - he has to look for wife from those who can get along with him, which means she should have similiar educational background, and similiar familiy background. Now it appears his apartment becomes the obstacle of his marriage - Believe me, he will soon get a wife if he has the courrage to donate this aparment to Xiwang Gongcheng. The aparmtent, more or less affects his attitdue about wife choice.
I would take my classmates as exmaples to show this. None of my high school classmates in Nanchang have their own apartments before marriage. I don't think they can afford that expense of purchasing an apartment with their poor salary. 160,000 Yuen would be a huge number for most of the Chinese citizens who are the permanent residents of Nanchang. To my understanding, the important thing for a girl to sign a contract with you is to let the girl actually see the hope and happiness of staying together with you, instead of the current living conditions.
家园 del 回错地方了
家园 单位上没条件，而且父母 不答应，他们很痛惜我的身体。
告诉你，最近我和河里某些河友视频了，评价是我现在比去年的那张照片还要瘦，国庆节前体检，我176的个子，现在体重只有127斤。
家园 没到时候嘛 俺180CM，数十年都在120KG徘徊，以为就这麻杆了。
结果没一两年腰围就从2尺4到了2尺7，体重长到140KG，而其实也没大吃大喝，饮食结构也没怎么变化。估计是消化改善了。
兄弟在饮食上还是不要过于苛刻节省了，人年轻，适当吃好点打基础。
家园 本来不想说，说错了别怪 忘情是个很坦率的人，这些节俭的方式很多刚毕业的人都经历过，也没有必要不好意思。我当年为了买菜便宜些还骑车跑过批发市场买菜。
节流是重要的，但是最终问题的解决还是要落在开源上。但是忘情最大的问题我觉得还是在性格方面，好像有“洁癖”，对自己对别人都比较苛刻。这样很难交朋友，从你自述需要月色帮你找编辑邮箱就知道，其实你在从小生活在省会，弟弟又在公安口，按说这方面不应该有问题。
不过，能上西西河，能坦率发表文字，本身说明忘情还是一直在努力改变自己的，希望忘情性格方面放开放开再放开，尽早脱掉那个无形的套子，修得“正果”
家园 谢谢，不是我要月色帮忙找 而是月色主动帮我物色扩大投稿面。人家是古道热肠。投稿之事，有无人帮忙，是否经常投，是否是回头客，这些有时往往比文章本身的质量更重要
家园 不会吧，忘情兄，其实除了自己的身体，什么都不是咱的啊。 忘情兄的精神和毅力很让我感动。不过，还是毛主席说的好，身体是革命的本钱。为革命健康工作50年啊。
其实除了自己的身体，还有什么是真正属于自己的呢？当然，老爸老妈还是要加上的。。。。
家园 千万注意身体呀 铁路没钱途，凭忘情兄的才华另找一个好单位不知道可行不可行？