主题：今天表白失败了 -- 阿国

凡表白的，均不成功。

后来老了，再也没表白过，该干啥干啥，反而什么问题都没了。

一、MM并不是直接、完全的拒绝。

反问可能是（1）自己在犹豫（2）让你多说两句，看看你对自己的认知和对她的了解（3）自己也没有成熟的考虑，一句反问算做回答。或者各种因素兼而有之。

二、你缺乏一种坚持，可能是性格的原因。

三、多年的朋友不会因为一句不恰当、或者不适时的一句表白就会破坏了友谊。反而，如果只差一句话没有说到错过了一段好姻缘则非常可惜。未婚的成年人如果能被人喜欢是一种很高级别的赞美，前提是大家都正常，被拒绝后不要有过激言行。

四、既然是多年朋友，应该是非常至少是比较了解了。但感觉不到你们彼此有这种了解。在这让陌生人出主意当然很好。但更建议你问问身边信得着、有阅历的朋友，最好是对彼此都有了解的。

四、最后，其实即使被拒绝也是好事。至少你追求了，将来不遗憾。而且，这是成长过程中非常重要的经历。对以后的生活只会有益。

也没有早恋过？？

不然不至于搞的表白和汇报一样啊，哈哈哈

禁止早恋害死人啊～～～～

是的，阿国，你符合我心目中男朋友的要求，具体请参看《国标泡3333号》。我同意与阁下进行发展的尝试。

对不起，我不该拿这个开玩笑。不过，如果你这样问：

阿花，认知这么久，我一直觉得你人很漂亮，性格也好。你看我们有没有可能进一步发展？你不用现在决定，下个月什么什么时候，我们见面再聊？

然后下个月见面时候，一定要见面，你把“你真漂亮”委婉重复100遍，看对方反应定夺。

写到这里，我怎么感觉你诚意不足呢？

要跟李敖学习，这小子在公车站泡MM，泡到了一个小女生做老婆。

你得首先自己相信自己能给mm幸福，是吧？剩下的就是让mm也相信了。

以博一笑，如果能有启发更好。你会表白自然是有信心给对方幸福，关键就是如何让对方也有信心。

“Never ever, ever ever coming out over the phone, save it for breakup. Next

time do it face to face, picture this in your mind:" It was 1,000,000 years,

she and you were the only living thing on this forsaking wasteland, you

just killed a sabertooth who was chasing her, it was cold and dark outside,

you have the cave and food." Now, grab her closer, hold her tight, look

straight into her eyes, and concentrate all the following: I want you, I

have you, I own you, I can protect you and I can support you, in three words

: I..... love..... you. Your chance will increase 100 fold.”

“I wasn't being funny,well, at least not just being funny. A man and a woman

is the basic of the basic, the circle of life, the legend of time, the

ultimate survival story.

When you approaching a woman, remember,you are not alone, behind you are all

your male ancestors: father, father's father,the first man walked out of

Africa, the ape walked up straight, the Lungfish that climbed up the river

bank, the Trilobite, the Sponge,the Algae, the RNA fragment in the organic

soup... Remember, they ALL had their way with their women, all of them,

every single one of them, hundreds and millions of generations of them, all

had their way with their women. Remember, they born, they fought, they lived

, they loved,they died,all of these, so they can have their way with their

women, all of these, so they can pave the way for you. All of these, so you

can be here, at this moment, to do this.

Therefore, you should not fail,

therefore, you must not fail,

therefore, you can not fail.

For nothing can stop the cycle of life, the way of nature, the love of a man

.(or, should I say the lust of man, well,same difference.)”

又一个帅哥向我表白了哈。

我肯定不会马上答应的啦，那样显得多没面子啊……

所以你如果真喜欢她呢，就继续死缠烂打，把竞争对手都赶跑。所谓烈女怕磨郎，如果做到没有其他竞争对手的话，她总是会嫁给你的（不嫁给你嫁给谁啊？）

兄弟继续努力啊，又称长了一点了哈

还是从本地找一个比较容易开始

真是性格决定命运, 我就是这么简单不会营造浪漫, 当然是碰壁的机会多, 的确应该要从长计议.

距离当然是个问题, 不过还是觉得我不符合MM的要求是主因, 和她聊天是她提起过一些往事, 我没深入问, 不然说不上可以知道当初那个他是怎么样的, 也知道我不让人满意的地方.

在我看来还是可以做朋友的, 就是有点没面子咯, 不过也是年纪一把, 没什么大不了. 希望不会让MM觉得太尴尬就好. 无论如何, 是一次人生经验, 下次可以做好点.