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主题:【原创】男人的爱与女人的爱是有区别的,兼答九九妹子的疑问 -- 大懒虫1号

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家园 古龙有一句话:女人的感情专一而不持久,男人的感情持久而不专一

这个是六人行里面关于楼主文章的行为解释例子:

女人注重感受,男人注重结果

RACH: Ross kissed me.

MNCA: Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god!

RACH: It was unbelievable!

MNCA: Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god!

PHOE: Ok, all right. We want to hear everything. Monica, get the wine and unplug the phone. Rachel, does this end well or do we need to get tissues?

RACH: Oh, it ended very well.

PHOE: Oh.

MNCA: [getting the wine] Do not start without me. Do not start without me.

PHOE: Ok, all right, let's hear about the kiss. Was it like, was it like a soft brush against your lips? Or was it like a, you know, a "I gotta have you now" kind of thing?

RACH: Well, at first it was really intense, you know. And then, oh, god, and then we just sort of sunk into it.

PHOE: Ok, so, ok, was he holding you? Or was his hand like on your back?

RACH: No, actually first they started on my waist. And then, they slid up, and then, they were in my hair.

PHOE/MNCA: Ohhhh.

[Scene: Ross' apartment. Ross, Chandler, and Joey are there eating pizza.]

ROSS: And, uh, and then I kissed her.

JOEY: Tongue?

ROSS: Yeah.

JOEY: Cool.

家园 这个命题真复杂啊

懒虫mm可真是一点也不懒。

有时候,作决定也就那么一瞬间的事情,根本就没有我们想象得那么复杂,就连当事人自己,回头看看,也觉得颇有些难以理解。很多人对初恋念念不忘,只不过是因为,一直惦记着如果当时我怎样做,那么,现在就会如何如何了。有些既成事实,到正好日后给自己留了好多遐想回忆余地。有些人觉得很值得,要用一辈子去记住;有些人觉得,这只不过在自欺欺人浪费时间。

家园 呵呵,老祖宗的诗经一句话就说明白了

士之耽兮,犹可说也;女之耽兮,不可说也。

说,通假字,音tui,4声。

话说这篇诗是选入高中课本的,名字为“氓”,讲的是一男一女由相爱到(心)相离的故事,以女子的口吻来追述的,其中相离的根本原因是:女也不爽,士贰其行。士也罔极,二三其德。这个也算是一种朦胧的爱情教育啦。

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