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主题:【原创】如何在婚前判断男人的“家暴”倾向 -- 局部地区有阵雨

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家园 这样的这样的男人最男人最可怕

首先,“浪漫派”是“家暴”的第一高危人群。其中又分为两类,一类是“内在”的浪漫,就是骨子里浪漫的男人,他的浪漫是发自内心的,随时随地的。这样的男人最可怕,因为他高度的情绪化,理想化。当他爱你的时候,可以为你做任何事,甚至去死;但结婚后,一旦对你的感情生变,或发现你本人并不是他幻想中的那样完美,这种刻骨的爱转化为刻骨的恨不过是一步之遥。爱得越深,恨得也就越深。

That won't wait so long till marriage. 家暴 normally has family history. It is better to check his/her family, see how his/her parents get along. If not good, don't sign contract with such a guy/girl. Another issue is related to personality. This kind of family abuse happens more often with those people who have abnormal personality, such as ignore others feeling, over-aggressive. I saw a couple of such family violence cases. It is nothing to do with romantic. It appears to me communication is the problem between them.

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