主题：【原创】如何在婚前判断男人的“家暴”倾向 -- 局部地区有阵雨

Family violence is sort of tricky. The better thing for one to do is to find a good spouse, instead of fighting for the fair against the spouse with performances in marriage.

Moreover, any fight within the marriage could lead to charge of family violence, which brings big trouble for the male and severely affects his career. Even if it won't bring those legal troubles, endless fighting could be energy comsuming. It is almost hopeless and cannot be cured because family violence is personality related. Reshaping one personality is almost impossible.

So, it would be good if one can open eyes before signing that contract: Check a. whether he/she can get along with his/her parents; b. whehter he/she can fairly treat his/her colleagues; c. whether he/she can appreciate other's favour; d. whether he/she can well treat and get along with kids; e. whether he/she has correct attitude about his/her job;