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家园 人有三种态度:父母、成年人、儿童

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Personality develops from experiences, from events in our lives together with the feelings, ideas, and attitudes that these events have stirred up within us. But actually your life experience is made up of not one, but three sets of feelings, ideas, and attitudes that can be in control of your personality.

Your Parent Attitude State is made up of those feelings, ideas, and attitudes that you have adopted from your parents or guardian. When you are acting, thinking, and feeling as you saw your parents do, your Parent Attitude State is in control of your personality.

Your Child Attitude State is made up of the feelings, ideas and attitudes that developed from events and activities in your childhood. When you feel or behave as you did when you were a young child, your Child Attitude State is in control of your personality; that means that any time you are expressing your inner feelings, whether they are pleasant or unpleasant, you are acting from your Child Attitude State.

Your Adult Attitude State is made up of feelings, ideas, and attitudes that you have developed through intellectual and educational experience. It is the most effective attitude state for dealing objectively with current problems. Your Adult Attitude State works much like a data processing computer because it enables you to examine facts and data, weigh probable consequences, carefully decide what to do, and then do it. Trouble is it is also easily knocked out of control by your more imitative Parent or your impulsive Child Attitude State.

“父母、成年人、儿童”三种性格,不只是体现汽车驾驶上,也体现在日常交往中。

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